Your date

Your date, your way

Take turns playing under three pre-approved temporary rules that let each partner explore confidence, teasing, and light consensual control.

Each person privately writes three temporary rules they would enjoy having their partner follow during a twenty-minute round. Examples include asking before kissing, whispering instead of speaking normally, waiting for the rule-maker to initiate touch, giving only specific compliments, or saying what you want before requesting it. Show all three rules before play. The other partner marks each YES, CHANGE, or NO; anything not approved is adjusted or removed without argument. Play the first twenty-minute round, then reverse roles with the second partner’s approved rules. After both rounds, discard the rule sets and each person names one rule they would enjoy keeping for the rest of the evening. No rule can remove the ability to stop, leave, change your mind, or say no, and unsafe themes such as breath restriction, pain, humiliation, or confinement are excluded.